Emotional Eating – How To Accept Yourself:
I had a man tell me recently that girls who use filters on their post must be UGLY in real life?!!
Yup. You heard correctly.
U.G.L.Y.
Straight up, I was confronted post because I, for one, luuurve me a good filter.
And here’s why…
All our lives women have been told:
You mustn’t
You shouldn’t
You better not.
Good girls don’t do/say/act like that.
No man will want you if you (add your own draconian verb here)
Which would be fine except…
YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO DO/WEAR/SAY AND USE WHATEVER FILTERS YOU LIKE AND NONE OF IT IS DEPENDENT ON HOW YOU LOOK IN “REAL LIFE”.
Side Note On How To Accept Yourself:
I suffered depression most of my life because of the way I look. There was a time when I wanted to die because I believed I was an UGLY ANIMAL who didn’t deserve to live.
Flippant comments like this can be devastating to someone who already is in a fragile emotional state.
So to anyone, male or female, who thinks that any woman is “ugly”, take a look in the mirror.
I think you will find that the real problem has been staring you the whole time.
So, next time you wonder how to accept yourself and your body remember… the only opinion that matters is yours. And it safe for you to be beautifully successful in all that you do.
P.S. remember to Like and Share with a sister who needs this. If you need a little extra nudge, check out my resources page here. You got this, girl.
Because if there’s one thing I want you to know, it’s that we create the life we believe we’re worthy of living.
Much love!
Ditch the Diet – 6 WEEK ONLINE PROGRAM
Related Posts
